- Being In Your Element - Face To Face With Reality
Face to Face with reality. The real answers are always simple. Better life, more profit, personal happiness, lots of love at home. All of nature can be divided into five elements. Earth, Water, Fire, Air, Ether. So, there's a competition to see who can destroy a drop of water. Everyone thinks they can get rid of it. They boil it, bash it, freeze it, pray for it, drink it, throw it. But sadly for them, the $10,000,000 prize remains in my hands. Because you can't destroy things in this whole wide universe. Nothing can be destroyed, only changed from one form to another. - Being Single And Opening Up To Love
W was single and approached me to help him rejoin his life with a partner. I first had to share that there is never a vacuum in nature, therefore he was not single. His partner exists, it was himself. His focus was on his feelings, his consciousness, his experience. - Improve Your Relationship Make 2007 "The Year of Deeper Love" - Follow Five Simple Steps
Follow these five simple steps to improving your relationship. More love and the happiness that comes from it in your life and the lives of others. - Questions about Love, Life and the Laws of Nature - Making Relationships Last
Love, relationship and the laws of Nature. Why do they work? How do you apply them? How did they get discovered and why should we trust them. Melisa Wadsworth explores these questions and answers with Chris Walker. - Sacred Love - 22 of The Most Powerful Rules of Relationships - 22 Guaranteed Rules to Sacred Love
Love is the most universally sought, most profoundly cherished, the most humanly persued element in the universe. Yet, it is the most abused, misunderstood, undervalued commodity in all of human existence. Why? We are stupid. How do we deal with this? Here are 22 suggestions that will turn the tide in your life and the lives of anyone who chooses to read and follow them. - Sacred Love - Some Advice to Those Seeking a New Relationship
Here are 11 warnings. They are not meant to encourage judgment, moreover, they are meant to help you to respect where people are at. The last person to know where they are at is the person them self, because their lust, emotion, and need to be rescued from their hell will make you the idol they will worship. They will be so attached, yet, complain and struggle, often blaming you for all their problems, when really it was their reality before you met. - Sacred Love - Knowing What You Can't Change in People
You can't change another person, you can only love them for who they are. This is a great awareness. Remember, people become as you treat them. Respecting that someone might not be having their best day, or month, or year, it is wisest to say, "Your stress is not my stress, I love you for who you are, not for who you can become". Always trying to change people has a hidden statement in it, and that is, you will be more lovable, better, if you change. And that is just not true - Sacred Love - How to Heal the Past - a Process to Love
Pain can only exist in a closed heart. Future relationships suffer from past unhealed wounds. If you can't let go, you'll spoil the next or attract a fool. healing the past is a duty, an obligation to yourself and those who depend on you. Here's how. - Sacred Love - Healing a Broken Heart; Part 3
But if you want love. Well that’s a different story. Love means naked, raw, honest, exposed, vulnerability. I hear people say, “I need to trust before I become vulnerable” and that is a horrible lie. The only person you need to trust in being vulnerable is you. Shame makes us worry about trust. Why would we be holding back anything if it weren’t for shame. Shame means we are not worthy of love, therefore, we can’t trust ourselves being open and natural and vulnerable. So we seek out people with the same ego issues and open up to them, only because they agree that we are victims. - Sacred Love - Healing a Broken Heart; Part 2
A broken heart cannot exist unless you are withholding love. This can be confusing because how can you love someone who hurt you, broke your trust? But you need to see these as two separate things. One is love, what is hurting you, holding it back. The other is your pain, which is caused by the assault on your expectations. - Sacred Love - Healing a Broken Heart; Part 1
During hardship, don’t let faith in your spiritual world die. Know that you are always being guided, and sometimes, that guidance takes us into places we never would have chosen. But can you see that this is integrity because you devote something to your existence, and have the willingness to deal with where you are taken? You asked for leadership and you are getting it. Work with the laws of nature and you can find beauty in the darkness, healing. Sometimes we get a flood or drought, a bush fire, and all manner of things come to us even though we never overtly asked for them, the key is to learn from our life, not resent it. - Sacre Love - Be in Your Element in Love - an Ayurvedic Perspective of Relationships that Last
Relationship is an art. It is a form of meditation. Why does one fall in love with another? Why are some connected with others? There could be dozens of reasons: conscious and unconscious. But regardless of intent, respect for each other begins when you understand what part of your partner cannot be changed - what is their natural way of life and how this differs from yours. This is such a vital ingredient to your life. - Sacred Love - Compassion is Understanding and Understanding is Wisdom
Each day count your blessings to be alive and able to love. Although emotion may suggest that life is not always fair, never allow the pains, hurdles, and disappointments of the moment to overwhelm your loving attitude and plans for yourself and your beloved. What you don’t appreciate, depreciates. You can never win when you wear the resentful mask of self-pity, and the bitter taste of accusation. They will certainly frighten away any opportunity for love. Never again hold a critical thought for yourself or your beloved. There is a better way. - Sacred Love - People Become As You Treat Them
People become as you treat them. For instance, if a person is called "foolish" time and time again, they will, eventually, become foolish. If we call a simple person wise, in time they will become wiser. If we treat a person with romance, then they become romantic. A child who grows up hearing judgment and being told they are incapable, comes to believe that as truth. On the other hand, a child who makes mistakes and is encouraged to keep trying, affirmed for small victories, learns to take risks and set high goals. A partner who always hears complaints will eventually lose their libido. The words we speak become the truth we live, we must be very, very mindful. - Sacred Love - Be the Love You Dream
Beginning today, treat everyone you meet, friend or foe, loved one or stranger, as if they needed your approval. Extend to each person, no matter how trivial the contact, all the care and kindness and understanding and love that you can muster, and do it with no thought of any reward. Your life will never be the same again. There is no greater existence than the life that gives more than it takes. - Sacred Love - Where are You Coming From? Are You Turning Up in Love?
As a leader, and a lover, it is wise to know where you are coming from in relationships with people. As you know already from your reading, you can’t manage relationship if you can’t manage yourself. You can’t know someone else if you don’t know yourself. Otherwise, you will just be projecting onto people, and won’t know anything about your reality or your truth or love. - Sacred Love - The Habit of Youthfulness
One habit worth developing, is the habit of youthfulness. Avoid the collapse of old age, where the lower abdomen protrudes, the shoulders slump, the head drops forward. That is the posture of collapse into old age. Keep the neck muscles strong and your neck long, abdominal muscles firm (inner core muscles as developed in Yoga and Pilates) to support the internal organs. The potbelly on so many men is the true reflection, not of old age, but of collapse of the vitality of youth, the surrender to gravity. To overcome it, is simply a habit of youthfulness. - Sacred Love - Eat to Love - Not Love to Eat
Eating a heavy meal at night is a romance killer. With a full belly, and all available spare blood down there trying to deal with it, how could one expect to be the model of passion with all that going on. What is left is TV and sleep. So romantic! - Sacred Love - Take Your Hat Off After Work
Being right at work might make sense, being right at home, kills love. Prioritise your love when you come home from work. Business has not evolved to the level of awareness where we can take off the ego. But if you bring this headspace in the door at home you are going to kill the romance. So, if you come home, and you don’t get out of work mode, and start running your home, acting like you are the CEO of the house, being right all the time, asking your partner if they “did all the trivial work that you don’t have time for because you are so important” then don’t expect, by playing with these rules, to have a happy, sexy delicious romance - Sacred Love: Make Your Home A Sanctuary For Love; Part II
We put our energy into everything we do. The environment in which you share your love life is one of the most important places to begin to acknowledge, that love is a priority.Your home can celebrate love to such a degree that it keeps a relationship together during difficult challenges.Designing your home to include the essence of romance is a vital part of creating sacred love in your home. The environment a person lives in affects their mind, their health, and their heart more than anything else in their life. An evolved individual, living amongst thieves, will eventually take on some of their energy. So our space is a vital step in creating sacred love. Here are some suggestions to improve your loving space. Part 11 - Sacred Love - Moving Past Ego to Love
Relationships operate under the same universal sky as everything else on earth. A fish swims because of the same laws that make relationships grow. A bird flies by the same rules that cause the sun to come up and make your taste buds savor fruits. - Sacred Love Growing through Challenges; Part 1
All emotion is only half the truth, an illusion; a complete lie. Life is balanced, we distort it by projecting out opinion onto it. We interpret it with our ego and spin it left or right and therefore emotionalise it. By emotionalising things, we can make it safe. And from a love aspect, then we see where we are – out of integrity – and could bring our ego back to balance, if we chose to. - Sacred Love - Living on Purpose in a Relationship is the Key to Long Term Love
Give me a few hours by myself, let me alone, shut out all interruptions, and I can bring myself down to my work. I take my pen in hand. I write a few thoughts. I see the future. And realise my responsibility. The more I think of the duty placed on me, the graver since my responsibility. Every idea has weight. I can see the effect of days ahead. - Sacred Love - Building a Relationship on the Higher Ground of Dreams and Love
Every year I take small groups of people to these sacred lakes. They go to find a deeper essence of life, to renew their individual commitment to authenticity. People sit by those lakes and dream, and there is no ego involved. Ego falls off on the way up. These lakes are a place where, legend has it, the power of prayers are multiplied by thousands upon thousands, a place where dreams that are dreamed, come true. And for me that has always been the case. - Sacred Love - Building a Relationship on Truth and Trust, Beyond Emotion and Blame
Emotion is the language of the ego. Emotion is the most wonderful honesty about how you feel, think and see life. But if you think your emotions are anything but a witnessing of your own “unconsciousness”, you may have a big problem in life. Emotions block love. No relationship, sacred or otherwise, can thrive when a couple considers their emotions a foundation. Those emotions are so changeable. - Sacred Love - Never Go Back
A sacred relationship takes two. Sometimes one or both people, are just not ready. To move into a sacred relationship, the individual you choose must be ready. If they are desperate, they say, “Got to this” and “Got to that”, and they are not ready. If they are always saying, “You should be like this”, or “You should be like that” then they are not ready. - Sacred Love - Making Your Relationship Your Number One Priority is the Key to Long Term Happiness
Make your work a hobby. Make your sport refreshment. Make your diet considered and let your mood be chosen. Let your priorities be love. It is such a great opportunity to consider “what is important”. If you want a relationship that is filled with love, then you’ll need to make love your highest priority. This seems easy and obvious when we are 19 years old, but when we turn 20, we seem to forget it. - Sacred Love - Getting Past Our Lies and Stories - Learning to Love Again
All our stories of the past are actually a balance of pleasure and pain. But that is not how we remember them. We want to protect ourselves, because we don’t want to admit how much we loved a person, and still do. We hold onto those stories and try to crease a life around them. - SacredLove - Healing Love by Moving through Self Deception
We can so easily judge ourselves, and our lovers, against some ideal. This usually relates back to our judgments on our parents. They are the key. If you can’t love your parents, you will not find love for yourself or your loved one. Unblocking love for one person is unblocking love for every person and no one affects this equation more than your parents. - Sacred Love - The Art of Building a Long Lasting, Loving Relationship Sacred
Sacred Love is a high and conscious alter on which you place the ritual of bond. It is sacred because there is nothing that can be allowed to intrude on it, a reverence, a devotion. It is a place from which the rest of life, including your work and play, can be undertaken. - Sacred Love - Stop the Rush and Think - Are My Actions Building or Destroying My Relationship
For just a few moments a day, stop the rush and contemplate the following questions? Is my mindset supporting a loving relationship? How do I really feel? Am I coming from anger or frustration, and therefore so determined to “make it” the way I want it, that I can’t appreciate it the way that it is? - SacredLove - Building Long Term, Sexy, Loving, Powerful, Authentic Relationships that Last
It is not inevitable in a relationship that is growing, that the infatuation that drove you together in the honeymoon period dies. This is no need to part. Instead, celebrate the beauty of a new level of love. Sacred Love. It has to because you want sacred love, not projections to bind you. But couples think because they are not excited by their lover, it is over. No, it is just ready to begin if we can get out of the cave consciousness and into sacred love. - SacredLove - The Four Attitudes that Build Relationships that Last Forever
Your attitude is not dependent on something happening, or people living up or down to your expectations; no matter what happens, your love is there. You now have the ultimate power; there is no need to react, or to run away from situations. To love means to hold deep happiness within, no matter what transpires. It is a loving intent to see that all your disturbances or blockage in love come from you, not from the way the world is. - Sacred Love - The Honeymood that Lasts Forever
Remember that effort you put into your relationship in the first months or year? Remember how important making love and holding hands was before the children came along? Remember those tears of gratitude that welled up in your eyes each time you woke beside your lover, or had candlelit dinners? - Sacred Love - Relationships that Last are Abundant in Love and Respect
In our relationships we often feel that we are not getting what we want. But if we were to examine each of these relationships clearly, we would find that we were getting exactly what we want, but not in the form we wanted it. - Sacred Love - Different Love Comes from Different Motive: Relationships Thrive at All Levels of Love
There are 7 realms of love. In each we see the world so different. Why? Because each realm holds love with a different motive. The lowest is purely physical, the highest is purely spiritual. Relationships slide up and down this scale. Can you free yourself to enjoy the journey? - A Mission of Love - Understanding Motive in Relationships
Mission of love means whoever you are with is perfect (stay)Mission of love means that your opinions are cheap substitutes for loveMission of love means what you do is less important than how you feel.Mission of love means today is the most important day of love - Sacred Love - Your True Nature
Your true Nature is beyond the ego. In the emptiness of your true nature, there is no right or wrong. The way we find this emptiness is by feeding the ego balanced information. If there is no right or wrong our identity becomes confused, "then what do I do?" And this is the healing place. - Sacred Love - The Second Law of Nature - Growing from Challenge Part 11
To be inspired, we need stillness within. That means to see this tic toc between order and chaos in our lives and rather than fight it, actually manage it. Infatuation with order will breed huge chaos. Instead, we can say, "oh, there's a challenge, where is the balance in that, oh there's a winner where’s the balance in that". - Sacred Love - The Second Law of Nature - Growing From Challenge
The purpose of this article is to discuss the second law of nature, the law of growth. Personal growth comes from changing your mind. When things happen, you can go into a downward spiral or change your mind. I you change you mind you can grow, if you don't then you will simply have to deal with the issue at hand. - sacred Love - Overcoming Loneliness
Sitting on top of the world, looking across the vast expanse of this earth and this universe, it is possible to feel the beauty and ultimate emptiness of our existence here on earth. Emptiness. It means without meaning, insignificant, without need or the hope of have a need met. Sitting on top of one of these mountains and looking beyond we know that we are a part of something far greater that the little worlds we call our own. - Sacred Love - Relationship Problem Solving Made Easy Part 11
Solving problems in relationships requires honesty, integrity and a downright simple understanding of where the answers are not - Sacred Love - Choosing the Motive of your Heart
Have you recently stopped the rush and considered this? Are you coming from loneliness and therefore seeking companionship? Are you coming from anger and therefore determined to "make it" in the world? Are you coming from smallness, feeling rejected and therefore always trying to prove yourself? - Sacred Love He Three Poisons In Relationship And How To Overcome Them
There are high emotions, and there are low ones. The high emotions breed happiness in self and others. The low ones cause much suffering. Of the low emotions, jealousy, anger, and desire are three of the worst. - Love is Not a Fantasy
Extract from Sacred Love book What is the difference between love and fantasy? Well one lasts and the other doesn't.. one causes affairs and the other doesn't. One is the beginning of depression and breakdown and the other isn't.. - Healing a Broken Heart
There is a big difference between pain and suffering. Pain is when you cut your hand. You don’t worry about your hand if you know it will get better. Suffering is when you’re not sure that your hand will heal, and you worry about what is going to happen. In relationship, pain comes and goes, and this is normal. Suffering in relationship comes when you hold back love because you are worried about whether your relationship will survive the pain. - No Excuses for Men
Men have spent the last 2,000 years placing an erection on a pedestal and trying to teach women how important and valuable it is. We have placed orgasms and climax at the peak of romantic relations, and in many, many cases inflicted that narrow perspective through our unconscious behavior toward women. We owe an apology for the mass of history, and the blindness of this little perspective. - Getting Past the Language of Victim and Blame
Over these past twenty five years researching and studying the science of love, I have often come across terms which defy rational thought, yet are considered everyday reality. One of those terms, which I would like to examine today is emotional abuse. - Relationships, Heart, Honesty - A New Insight into Making Relationships Last
Whatever I do - such as my work, my yoga, making love, meditation, working - I do with all my heart, wholeheartedly, by throwing myself away and letting life take its natural course completely. But if my manner becomes habitual or self righteous, then anything I do will be wrong. It will be good for nothing. Always be a novice, a learner, no matter if we have been in love for 100 years with the same person, make a fresh start every day. We must always remember that love is unavailable to those who have a long memory. Simple people love more. That's called the Aussie Spirit. Australian people know how to lighten up, and that really helps life to shine. - Sacred Relationships - Beyond Excuses
To say "I love you" is easy. You can say it to anyone and even believe it yourself. Action is love in real life. Acts of kindness lead to feelings of love. Kindness does not always mean generosity. Kindness can mean sensitivity. Kindness can mean honesty. But real kindness is appreciation. Kindness means that someone’s life appreciates because of your existence. This is the journey between action and love. There is no excuse, if your life causes someone’s life to depreciate, you have caused yourself karma. What goes around comes around. Even the bible reminds you of Karma, do unto others as you would have them do unto you. - The Universal Laws Of Nature - Turns Chaos To Order - Anytime
There are five unique but interconnected laws that describe and define the creation, maintenance and transformation of all of life. To know, really know, these laws requires that you step beyond the conventions of your culture and reach out to a bigger perspective. There is no chaos, there is only a circumstance we cannot understand. These universal laws take you a long way to the understanding you may be looking for. - It's All In Your Mind - Love Must Still The Mind
Relationships are affected by memes. Memes are thoughts we think without thinking. A meme therefore lives in our subconscious and can define our behavior, reactions, actions, motives, tastes, preferences, inclinations, interests, decisions. But rarely do we identify them.Memes come from societal norms. Memes come from parents. For example incest happens in the children of incested women at nearly 4 times the prevalence than in those children of non incested mothers. This is not a gene – it is a meme.WE have social norms. And these are memes because we hardly know that they can be questioned. In some religious societies people are punished severely for breaking or even questioning memes. - Hard Work Is Bad Management - Especially in Love
What you appreciate grows. Good management is to appreciate things. Make them bigger. You make people bigger by appreciating them. You make businesses bigger by appreciating its assets. You make relationships bigger by appreciating how much you can do together as a couple (rather than as two individuals) and you make yourself bigger by appreciating life, and the gifts you have.
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