- Bridging The Gap Between What You've Got And What You Want
There's a GAP in everyones life. Somewhere between where you are and where you thought you'd be, there's a GAP. Some people are far ahead of where they thought they'd be, so their GAP is on the plus side. But, for the other 99% of the population somewhere in our lives there are unfulfilled dreams. These are the GAPS we need to fill. - Sacred Love - We Are The Environment We Create
People say, "I want to change the world, or make a difference and the opportunity is right here, in our own back yard. If we can sustain a relationship in harmony with one person, then there is certainly a greater chance of sustaining harmony with 6.5 billion. Our domestic relationships are, in reality, a single cell in the body of humanity". - Turning Up for Love - Overcoming Tiredness
Did you know that yogis in caves, monks in monasteries and hippies in communes are not usually all that vital, healthy or energetic? Did you know that anti oxidants are proven ineffective against acidic thinking? Did you know that tiredness comes either from physical, emotional or mental sources, but the body doesn’t know the difference?Read the article to find out more - Looking for REAL Love - It Starts With Unlearning
To live a real loving life you better not "believe" too much. Beliefs are your egoistic nature, not true nature. No one wants to be with your egoistic nature for long. It’s boring, righteous and lacks intimacy. There is no vulnerability in beliefs. - Sacred Love - Building Relationships That Last
Are you in a relationship or thinking about getting into one? If so, then how will you know if you are building a lasting relationship, or simply going through a dance that’ll end in disaster. I've written this article as a sort of check list for the uninitiated in how to create and sustain a long term, passionate and totally inspiring relationship. Better, I think, to check the list, than to end up trying to repair damage. Once that is done, it's extremely difficult. - How to be Inspired by Life Through a Friendship with a Leaf
One day, quite accidentally, I became inspired by life, permanently. It was not a huge moment, nor one of those divine experience. It was just another moment in the day, but this one was extraordinary. I was playing with a dried up old brown leaf. Twirling it by the stem, the light shone from it, then through it then around it. The small branches that held the leaf body in shape were happy creatures reaching out from the stem obviously hunting for light. - How to Improve Your Relationships in Life
The deepest beauty of all of life is love and the greatest love you will ever experience, is the love you give. We speak of enlightenment, but what greater enlightenment can exist other than the true love and devotion we have for life itself. The key to all this is the ability to see beauty, everywhere. If you are limited to seeing beauty only where things are beautiful or conform to your expectations, you can not know real love. Real love is the ability to see beauty, everywhere, in everything, and to do so, you will need the universal laws. It is from a universal perspective, far, far beyond the realms of the earth that all the chaos actually turns to order. - Staying Happy Being Single, or in Double Trouble
Happiness is natural, but in our modern world it is becoming a privilege for the few. Stay away from negative environments, hold a good mindset and stay upright. The first weeks or months can be confronting, just be patient. Happiness after all is what motivates people to be in relationships. If you are not a happy person, then the odds of someone wanting to stay or be with you just slipped a few notches. - Finding Love That Lasts More Than A Week
There are a few important realizations that come to us as a result of being single. The most significant of them how we feel when we are alone. Although we might think this will change when we meet someone, the long term truth of the matter is that it doesn’t. We feel what we feel, alone or with someone, and the choice is ours. Our feelings are our choice. - Sacred Love - Building a Better Relationship With Self
If you look at it, all of life is some form of relationship. Our relationships to each other, the earth, our business colleagues and as importantly, the things we call possessions, constitute what we call, life. On a more personal level, our relationship to ourselves can be of vital importance. If we are unhappy with who we are, we begin to self doubt, self analyze and in many cases, self destruct. The positive side of a healthy self respect brings us a quiet confidence, one that might be called content or satisfied. It can lead to all manner of inner niceties like peace and harmony. - Sacred Love - Finding Love Step One
Finding love everywhere is the first step. Witnessing love in all it's available and free forms is the first thing. You must take this witnessing with you when you enter a relationship. If you enter a relationship, and the only place you can see and feel love is in your lovers arms, then you are going to be hyper sensitive and sabotage the relationship. - Sacred Love - Me or You
On a TV interview for the book launch, I was asked rather provocatively, by the interviewer, "didn't you have to do allot of self help when your marriage broke down?" I stumbled through the response, trying to get back to the core topic, which was "please buy my new book" but the question was good and I've been thinking about what I'd answer if I had a second chance. - Sacred Love - Why are You Single?
From the age of 14, being single is unnatural. From that age, nature want us, in some form or other, to share our life with a significant other. Be it the boy around the corner or the girl of your dreams, being double is normal, being single takes an effort. Nature does not define relationships, we do. We load them with our own brand of "should" and in doing so bring the whole of our being forward into the moment of love. We are not always living in accordance with nature, we normally live in accordance with the laws and rules, values and beliefs that we have accumulated. - Sacred Love - Finding Love - The First Step
The first step to finding and keeping love – stillnessWhen we declare our love for someone, we really mean, I am at peace with you. At peace means I lack any emotional negativity and therefore, I let down my guard. - Sacred Love - Finding True Love
Open? The implication is perfect and beautiful. It means love is there, beneath the surface, crowded and clouded by the life we choose above the surface. To become open to love therefore means to arrange our outer world in such a way that it never, ever becomes a blockage? How? - Sacred Love - Finding, Falling and Staying - In Love
Finding love, falling in Love, Sustaining love. Three keys that can change a person's life forever. We've made it harder than it really needs to be. Find the keys in this article. - Sacred Love - Being in Love
Each day, we are busy, all of us. We have things to do, people to see places to go. We have important things. And we do our exercises and eat our breakfast. But the most crucial thing, we often forget.And that is, Us. We forget to invest a few moments in being us. Not the working us, or the healthy us. The real us. The one that loves love. Try reading these articles in the morning as a part of being A better US. This is the time to be the best US we can. And with this, your relationships will thrive. - What Is Love But The Deepest Of Human Awakenings?
What is love but the deepest of human awakenings? It is the mark of all the great sages. Love and the depths of enlightenment are proven not beneath a tree or in some temple, but in the warmth and generosity of our relationship with our beloved. Are we here, present with them in this moment? Are we here, thankful for and humbled by the gift of their time and effort? Have our material ambitions turned us into abusive, neglectful individuals? These questions are never more vital than in the moments of sacredness, when we are cumulatively building a sustainable, divine and sacred relationship with our beloved. - Sacred Love - Seeking a Real, Sacred and Loving Relationship? Try This
Since the awakening I got from the breakdown of my marriage, I have spent every waking hour of my life, nearly 20 years exploring love, relationship and sacred truths. I have found therapies that condone victim hood, meditations that build personal religions, yoga classes run by Gurus who cannot love, I have found "happily married" plenum speakers who are internationally famous for their spiritual and self help teachings yet, whose sex life reads like a Hollywood movie script. It is not easy being you, and the teachings you’ll get are mostly corrupted by economics. People pay to hear what they want to hear, not what they need. - Sacred Love - The Rituals of Love
Surrender to love. Today, and every day, fall in love, again, and again and again. Give more than is expected of you. Expect no reward. The beauty of love will be half won when you learn the secret of putting out more than is expected in all that you do. Make yourself so valuable to your beloved that eventually you will become indispensable. Find their dream and help them live it. Exercise your privilege to support their journey, go the extra mile, and enjoy all the rewards you receive. You deserve them! - Sacred Love - the Power of the Heart is the Human Spirit - this is Will Power - Love Power
Never again clutter your days or nights with so much “busi-ness” and unimportant things that you have no time to “be in love” and “live with love”. This applies to play as well as work. A day merely survived, with money as the only reward, is no cause for celebration. In its purified state, the human heart is the hologram of the seen and unseen worlds; it is the part that reflects the whole. The heart is the point at which the individual human being is closest to the Divine. The heart is the centre of our motivation and our knowing, possessing a depth and strength of will that the personality lacks. When we say that the heart has an integrative power, we are not talking in abstract, metaphorical, or merely intellectual terms. The realisation and purification of the heart both opens a doorway to the infinite, and also results in a restructuring of neural pathways, a refinement and reorganisation of our entire nervous system, which allows the fullest expression of our human possibilities. We can so easily fall into the world of life to work rather than work to live. Time can rush by, we are so busy getting ready to enjoy life, that we are too tired to take advantage of it. To manage our life, for the benefit of love, we must master the power of will. This, in another language, means discipline. No more busy work. No more hiding from love. Leave time, leave space to grow. Now. Now! Not tomorrow! - Sacred Love: Make Every Day a Honeymood that Will Last Forever - Love is a Lifestyle Don't Wait!
Romance your beloved. Live this day as if it will be your last together. Remember tomorrow never comes. Forget yesterday's challenges. Be innocent, get off the high horse. Ignore all your worries about tomorrow. This is it. Your own Jihad. Give it all you have. Make it the best day of your year. Forget Valentine’s Day, every day is Valentine’s day. The saddest words you can ever hear are, “I wish I had my time over again I’d do it different”, regret. The stupidest people have “do it tomorrow” on their calendar. Act like your beloved is the most precious diamond, and if you don’t act now, they’ll melt. Run with it! Today! Now. Don’t be a mourner get out of the corner. - Sacred Love - Begin Each Day With Love and Celebrate the Magnifiicent Gift of Your Life, Your Love
Many people go out into life and then meet with the numerous contracted energies and complexities that could obstruct their efforts. Only struggle ensures that they begin to think about their spiritual practice as something to attend to once all the “important “ things have been taken care of. Not surprisingly, the person often feels too tired and abandons the idea of developing a spiritual practice altogether. - Sacred Love - Love is a Lifestyle - Make Your Home a Santuary for Your Love
We put our energy into everything we do. The environment in which you share your love life is one of the most important places to begin to acknowledge, that love is a priority. Your home can celebrate love to such a degree that it keeps a relationship together during difficult challenges. - Sacred Love - Evolving through the Art of Love
Real Love means that you embrace the whole of life, the whole of your love, the whole of yourself. There is nothing to change in your lover; they are just the mirror of the difference between your ego created hero, heroine and reality. There is nothing for the ego to defend there is nothing for the ego to protect or project , it is all perfect as it is. - Sacred Love - The Spirit of Love, the Joy of Life
I meet both men and women in business all over the world. They are very demanding people - exacting uncompromising standards of quality control, discipline, focus and attention from everyone who works with them, and more so from themselves. At home, they are highly exacting with their children, expecting the best, helping them grow and learn. But when it comes to their relationship, my witnessing has not been all that positive. - Sacred Love - Learning to Manage Your Life Around Love
I was doing a consultation with a lady when her ex-husband rang. The time was precious for her, but she answered the phone. She was in the consult with me because of her past relationship with him, and his violent abuse. Now, she was in consult, and she couldn’t turn the phone off. - Sacred Love - Healing Love Finding the Truth - Expectations Kill Love
Over 20 years ago, I went through a divorce. One day I was a successful, wealthy, healthy and happy businessman, the next I was not. My wife and three treasures of my life, Simon 7, Ricky 5 and Stephanie 3, sailed off into the sunset on a yacht with their new “Dad”. I was shattered, suicidal. I tried everything to heal, most helped, but nothing worked. One day, however, it all came together purely by chance. - Sacred Love - Humble to the Magnificence of Life, Potent in the Power of Love
True Love means a huge perspective. As we sit beneath the canopy of nature, we can only imagine the wealth of love that must exist. We are just one person, sitting on one planet, of which there are twelve around our sun, of which there is 6 trillion in one galaxy, and of which there are 50 million that we have so far been able to measure. This is love, this perspective. Now look back from there at our little home, and you will see what true love really means. - Sacred Love - At the Heart of Love - the Most Powerful Love Grows from this
We speak of the heart as if it were a spongy weak mushy place that opens at movies, dribbles that tear down your cheek at the worst of moments, and makes us so vulnerable. And so it might be. But the heart is, without doubt, the most powerful human centre that can exist. - Sacred Love - the Importance of Living on Purpose
What became apparent was that I had outlived my own dreams. As a child in fairly humble circumstances, we dreamed of food on the table, a non-violent home, a good steady job and a loving family. It was now thirty years later, and I had achieved and lived all of my dreams. I was lost, and living other people’s dreams because I had achieved all my own. That day comes to everyone. - Sacred Love - Being Authentic is the Key to Truly Happy Relationships
Living authentically means to be happy with who you are, as you are. When you desire nothing, there is nothing lacking. From this place you can live and act with calm, confidence and love. Here, all actions are taken with non-violent intent and whatever you touch, whatever you are doing, or not doing - just existing - is a loving experience. You are alive and in harmony with nature. - Sacred Love - Love is an Emotionless State: Falling in Love is a Magnificent Gift of the Soul
Love is an emotionless state. It is a deep and wonderful knowing. The spontaneity of love, where we meet our lover afresh everyday, knowing that everything they are worthy of love, is the most beautiful moment in life. We carry no history, we accept that they are just the messenger; we open our heart to them as if we never met them before. We are young again, and the ego is simply not permitted to take hold and bring its judgments forward. This is our sacred relationship. - Sacred Love - The Art of Falling in Love Over and Over and Over and Over Again
When you commit to be open, you can truly fall back in love any time you choose. We go straight past the ego, past the intellect, and we fall back in love because there is no expectation, no resistance, no question, nothing to defend or protect, no “I” or “me”, there is just love. There is no reason, so there is no resistance. - How to Go Deeper in Love Using the Five Laws of Nature
Hold your heart with one hand and hear this once in your own life. Organized religions are not here to teach truth, they are here to organize communities. They are not sponsored by Gods, but by hopes. Look deep my friend, look deep. Look behind your Yoga class, look behind the meditation teacher, the priest, the Rabbi, the Mufti, the Monk, look behind them and get past your infatuations. Then, sit with nature and ask, what exists before the hand of the ego falls on your thoughts. The hand of the ego, masked as the hand of God. - Sacred Love - The Forth Key - Rising to Higher Ground
Relationships are sacred. Love is cumulative. What we do day to day, is far more important than any religious or philosophical belief system we may subscribe to. Our actions in life reveal us, and therefore love, sacred love is an activity, not just a feeling. The Laws of Nature place an umbrella over all the religions, beliefs, philosophies, and ideologies. To encapsulate each and every individual’s personal choices in life by rising to a higher point of vantage of life. Rising above separatism and righteousness to the universal laws of nature. Those laws belong to every human on this earth, they are the same no matter where you live, or what you believe. Those laws of nature are in the palm of your hand and in the stars that make life possible. - Sacred Love - The Second Key - Grow Through Challenge
These five keys not only present the secrets to falling in love, they represent the deepest insight to the secrets of falling in love any time, over and over again. Building on a first moment, strengthening bonds, dealing with challenge, opening to tomorrow. Creating sacred environments, building a sacred home. - Sacred Love - The First Key, Stillness
To fall in love is certainly the most natural and precious experience of life. To stay in love, and to grow in love requires more than rituals, threats, certificates and stamp duty. To stay and grow in love requires an understanding of something far greater than our own accumulated hopes and dreams. It requires more than love, it requires capacities and skill to deal with life and its challenges. No one is, or would want to be, immune from them. - Sacred Love - The Fifth Key - Love Is A Lifestyle
These are the keys to sacred love. These five simple laws of the universe sit above and are woven into the fabric of everything that moves, and doesn’t move, on this planet. We have no choice but to be obedient to those laws, all our thinking and dreaming and wishing and hoping can amount to nothing if we are wishing to defy the laws of nature. They are, in truth, the greatest and most simple indication of what exists before we do. - Why am I Single? Answers and Solutions to an Age Old Question
Nature never meant a human soul to be alone. This is a human condition formed from the ego, and built out of necessity. Nature does not separate us into you and me, them and they, we do. Nature would not cause a relationship to finish. She would cause two branches to find a way to adapt to each other. Both would bend, a bit. - Sacred Love - Overcoming the Problems of Life and Love
When you are walking in the mountains, high up there in Nepal, there is always a problem to be faced. Things are always in a dance with each other. The clouds might be low but there is warmth. The rain is coming down but there is a cozy fire somewhere. The sun might burn but the visibility is amazing. The wind can be freezing yet, it blows away the cloud and leaves photographs inspired. You may be tired, but the altitude you gained may bring you closer to your self. Your feet and knees are sore, but you meet a Sherpa and hear something that changed your life. You may get stomock upset but because you take a break, you meet monks on the way and stop and talk. It's the same in love. - 5 Steps to Sacred Relationships Book - Step One, Turning Up for Sacred Love
When you are next looking at how to improve your love life, don’t just look at your genitals and think how you can add an extra bounce. Think outside the domain of that little area and focus on all seven realms of love. Although love can end up being expressed sexually through the genitals, love making covers a much wider domain of human emotion. - Excess And Deficiency - The Most Powerful Words You Will Ever Use In Creating A Love Filled Life
Too much aggression, not enough peace. Too much global warming, not enough environmental awareness. Too much time single, not enough romance. Too much giving not enough getting. Too much work not enough home. Too much greed not enough kindness. Too much hard work not enough play. Too much food not enough exercise. All this adds to a zero sum game because nobody really gets the truth/ - Love is a Chemical Reaction
Every emotion causes a chemical. Happiness, sadness, fear, worry, guilt, ambition, anger, joy, pleasure and pain. All 3600 emotions cause 3600 chemical combinations. (Candice Pert, Molecules of Emotion is a good reference) – So you can see, that what we eat is only a part of the story of health. - Life is a Chemical
We can think what we want, but really, life is a chemical. We can't change a person, but we can change their chemistry. We can change a person's chemistry by feeding them, making them laugh, making them happy, making them sad, feeding them alcohol, making them feel good about themselves. - Sacred Love Book Excerpt from Ch 8
Love is not the only glue essential for a sacred relationship to survive the test of time. If you are not doing the work you love, then your relationship will suffer. Your work is vital to your sense of future, your energy, your vitality. - The Seven Realms of Love
We all say "I love you" but what do we really mean by that? Some people say I love God and therefore I kill people. Some others say "I love you, and then proceed to abuse" - There are those who feel loved because their lover has sex with them regularly, or buys them fist class air tickets. Some people feel loved because their partner is jealous of others. Other people feel loved when their partner gives them so much rope, they are virtually single. What is love? How do we explain all this? Enjoy the article.. - The Seven Sacred Realms of Love
There are seven realms of love, seven levels of love. To the individual they are all "the best" but some have more challenges than others. The physical realm is delightful and sexy, but the emotional drama, and short lived passion are painful and life shattering - Sometimes Love Hurts
Sometimes love hurts. Sometimes love is so painful you feel like you are going to burst. You want to make love over and over. Just to make some feeble effort to show it. It aches. And your lover is happy. They dreamed of being loved like this. They dreamed that one day, someone would love them. Like this. - Humility is Love
All great things are built on the foundation of love. Yet, sometimes we forget to acknowledge it. - What Is Love – That Can Never Die
Love can't die. Pain doesn't teach us. People are always with us if we love them. Anger has a place. Repressed anger is violence. Peace is not angerless. These statements and more here. - Hard Work Is Bad Management - In Business and Relationships
A person who continually works long hours really doesn't value their relationship, that's bad management. A relationship that is not fun and happy is hard work and this is caused by bad management. If a person can't use their creativity to design their work so more gets done in less time, then they are a bad manager. If we are working 18 hours a day, we are both mismanaging our relationship and our work. There's no excuse. BAD MANAGEMENT IS HARD WORK. Creativity needs to be used to get more done in less time.
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