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Men are as different as women when it comes to what they think is a turn on in the other sex. Some people are drawn to eyes first, some people notice a smile or sense of humour, while still others may be attracted to clothing or a certain je ne sais quoi. It varies across the spectrum. The upside is that when it comes down to personality, guys are surprisingly similar. There are certain qualities that men are drawn to. For the most part, these can be reduced down to five key qualities men seek in a girl. 1. Independence – Dependant women are not attractive. Being autonomous and having a life of your own not only shows you are a unique, lively woman, it also shows you are confident enough to hang out by yourself for periods of time, and ensures that he getsthat much needed and much discussed “space”. It is wonderful to know that you’re loved, but too much dependence can feel like suffocation. Having external interests and activities is vital – and also gives your guy occasion to look forward to seeing you again! 2. Confidence – Study after study proves that the sexiest trait in either sex is self assurance. When you’re happy with yourself, it shows other people that there is something to be happy about, that you’re living a full and happy life. A little jealousy is natural and can even be attractive, but a constantly second-guessing, insecure girlfriend, who always questions your wherabouts and motives is deeply unattractive. Be confident and trusting. If he cheats, it’s his loss, and you’re secure enough to leave him for someone better. 3. Level Headednedd – A girl worked up is a man’s worst nightmare. From his nagging mother to his irritating ex-girlfriend, your boyfriend has probably witnessed his fair share of female psychotic episodes. These situations are disturbing for men, who avoid them no matter what. Be frank, relaxed, and rational at all times, and the friendship and respect between you will grow. If you are consistently agitated or illogical, your boyfriend will not want to spend time with you, especially when he probably needs you the most. Be a reliable support, in a calm, understanding and rational way. 4. No Guy Wants to be Hen Pecked! Pick your fights, and select them thoughtfully. Like everyone, men can be somewhat stubborn or silly at times. You need to learn when to stand your ground and when it’ll cause more throuble than it’s worth. Pestering never is the solution, usually impedes the solution, and generally provokes resentment. 5. Tolerance (for his interests, his mom, his buddies, and so on) – This one is a deal breaker. There must be respect in any relationship, and it has to be mutual. This means listen to opinions, give full support and don’t demean at all especially in public or in front of friends and family. Even if it goes against the grain, sometimes you just have to agree to disagree. You might not like all his decisions, or particular elements of his lifestyle, and you don’t have to – however you should tolerate them.
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Dating Advice by Justin Parfitt, The Founder of FastLife Speed Dating, the worlds largest speed dating and singles events service. Fastlife hosts speed dating events in 47 cities in 6 countries including Speed dating and singles events and Brisbane speed dating
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